Desperation #2: Todd proclaimed
his unhappiness with their marriage. He had decided
that he would not go out of his way to involve
himself in their relationship in a serious way.
Let me try to explain. You see Todd would still
be congenial. He would still make her coffee every
morning. He would still help around the house,
like vacuuming and cleaning the bathroom. What
he would not do is anything that was romantic.
He always did things for her but it was a very
one-sided relationship in the romance department.
He would not bring her breakfast to work. He would
not drop flowers at work, he would not give her
back scratches, he would not call her pet names,
he would not try to be romantic in any way. The
reason why is because Pauline did not return the
romantic favours or any warmth at all and their
relationship was seemingly very one-sided, hardly
the way to enjoy a happy marriage. Pauline dramatized
every moment and it was affecting the entire family.
Todd took a chance, but he knew it could not get
much worse. Todd presented Pauline with the vitamin,
mineral and herbal option. Pauline reluctantly
agreed to commence taking the system. She didn't
want much to do with even knowing what it was
she was taking. She was just doing it to appease
Todd.
Todd
administered daily her juice with J.O.L. and minerals
and vitamins. Pauline started to improve. Her
dramatic and dramatized daily events diminished
and warmth and focus returned. Reduced fatigue,
increased sensitivity and positive attitude became
the norm. Todd now needed to have Pauline take
responsibility for herself and she had to learn
what it was and how much to take.
Todd
sat down with Pauline and he discussed the system
and how Pauline needed to take care of herself.
The next day she was on her own to take the system
of vitamins, minerals and herbals. She didn't!!!
Wham! She forgot or.wasn't in the habit or.didn't
truly realize what it had done for her. You see,
she had felt really good for weeks. What was one
day without! By 5pm she was stressed and tired
and unhappy and dramatizing everything.
Todd
used this "crash" as a learning experience for
her. She had to see it herself and realize the
importance of these good things in her life every
morning. She got back at it again and within hours
she was smiling and loving her life again. Little
did Todd know but he was actually helping Pauline
get her hormones back with bio identical natural
hormones which along with the vitamins and minerals
were really helping.
Now
it's about romance!! This next section is about
sex drive. Todd's sex drive and passion for romance
was greater than Pauline's. They were happy together
but the romance factor was somewhat lacking. Those
of you reading this, answer this question. Which
partner in your relationship has the higher sex
drive? Is it the husband or wife? Usually it is
the man as this is part of a mans character, of
...yes, being a man.
Now
that Pauline was showing warmth, caring and sensitivity,
Todd presented her with the last step in his journey
to having the best relationship he has had with
Pauline in 20 years. He did nt really know at
the time but he was making her daily smoothie
of berries and Greensforce and Mineral Matrix
and giving her fermented soya which he had heard
was healthy too! He did not know that fermented
soya had characteristics of estrogen. Fermented
Soya is a plausible bio identical natural estrogen.
Now she was as balanced as she had ever been and
well.......
How
many readers believe in aphrodisiacs? We aren't
speaking of oysters and honey!
These
products are for real and some stem from ancient
plants and work amazingly well. So well in fact
that Todd at one point could not keep up. He says,
"There's a first time for everything". Pauline
has since lightened up on her intake of Lady Vigor
and Fermented Soya and now Todd's and Pauline's
sex drives are similar. Todd says this is the
best our relationship has been in 20 years. Pauline's
system is now as balanced as it has ever been
and there marriage is in harmony once again.
SUMMARY OF METHODOLOGY
 If
your spouse requires help with loving their life,
and that help could be vitamin minerals and herbals,
then you must present and assist during all stages,
if necessary. From denial, to trial, to smile.
This process could take a while. It may take a
year to work through all stages. You see,.....
part of the mystery is knowing how much to take.
Certainly at the beginning, it is common to take
a little, not knowing what it will do for you.
As we once read, however these are all natural
ingredients and all the vitamins and minerals
your body does not pick up will be passed through
your system. Someone once said, its like food,
just put gravy on it. That's why it may take awhile.
Helping your body assimilate these nutrients into it are fermented products such as olives, fermented soya, red wine, yogurt and saurkraut. Eat these when you can. Is it worth it? You bet!! Finally in the last
stage, when we describe the smile stage, your
spouse must know that what he/she does regarding
his/her consistent use of the system of herbals,
vitamins and minerals, its effects on his/her
life on a daily basis, and the result is
indeed "loving your life together" ...so... get
going and luvlife as there are many smiles4you
on the horizon!! Ed.
CONCLUSION
We
have spent many hours deliberating over how exactly
we would like to conclude these pages. We think
we have found it!! Wayne Dyer once said ...when
you are inspired and show enthusiasm you are performing,
or working, or playing, with the help of something
else, another force is guiding you. We had never
known when we started how this would all come
about and what exactly would be shared with you
in these pages. As the weeks and the months unfolded,
as we assembled our site, articles continued to
appear that were perfect for our story and that
would assist you, the reader, in understanding
more of our journey and yours. The meaning of enthusiasm
(the actual etymology of the word) is "the god
within" ...the actual root of inspired is
"in spirit." We trust that you now have a goal,
and that you are inspired after reading our story
and enthused about your days and weeks and months
to come. Love your life again!! Todd
and Pauline
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